player?

So this is one question that I always think about. Why is it that when a boy, a man, the male gender shuffles between girls he's called a "player" which has come now to something positive. His guy friends thinks he's so cool and "pimpin" because he gets so many girls. However, on the other hand if a girl, woman or the female gender in general shuffles between guys, or has been with a lot of guys she is referred to as a "slut, whore?" The same guys that cheer on their guy friends for being playas, condescend a girl for being a slut.

Not that I agree with this concept from either sex. No matter who you are, you should'nt break another person's heart, or play with their feelings. But I just dont agree with girls being said negative things to and guys being encouraged to do whatever they feel like and being complimented for actually doing wrong things.

I beleive in equality like most women do. In this case, no matter who the action be from, its wrong. Just like girls are condescended and looked down upon for shuffling between guys, the male gender should be condescended and looked down opon for shuffling girls.