From past expereince, this is one thing that I have learnt. Girls are always so competitive, in the sense "who looks better? Whose more thin? Who can get that guy? My boyfriend is hotter than yours! My hair is done better!" Guys on the other hand, can care less about these things. They just need "chill" people to hang out with and talk to, at least my guy friends.
Dont get me wrong, as a girl you always need girls that can tell you what to wear on special occassions, be there for you when you need to cry your heart out, and give you make-up and hair tips! :) These are what you may call best friends. But just friends, girls come with a lot of drama. Personally, I dont want to hear about how your nail broke at the gym, or that you got highlights in your hair. This is why, as friends to just chill with I have mostly guys. First of all, they can drink so much more without being annoying! Most girls tend to have a very low tolerance ( or so they pretend ) and then they just act drunk so all the guys could pay attention to them.
Also no matter how much you try, I learnt kickboxing, 2 of my best friends are black belts, but that did not help me when like the 4 of us (girls) were surrounded in a fight between like 15 guys at a club one time. Luckily that time, my brother was at the same party, so him and his friends helped my friends and I out of the circle of death..or so it felt like it. At that time I realized that if it wasnt for my brother and his friends to push the guys fighting out of the way and take us out of the circle, I probably would have come out with black eyes and bruises.
Girls also get jealous very easily, for other friends. In high school, in 11th grade I became close to another cliche, different from the one that I was always in. It wasnt as if that I payed any less attention to my old friends, I just made new ones. Some of my old friends started acting really strange towards me, and in my yearbook even wrote "Chose your friends wisely in college." I listend to her advice and avoided becoming close to a lot girls! I could really live without drama and fights in college. I just want to study, party, have a good time :)
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