just a random thought

I speak for myself when I say this, but why is it that guys always think that just because a girl talks to them first, it means that they want something with them. I introduce myself to people everytime I go out, doesnt mean I want something to happen with each one of them. I just like to meet new people, but when it comes to a lot of guys they always think there is a reason behind, me coming to them first.Or say if you meet them later on, they always try and make a move. Like no! I dont want that. I just wanted to be friends, or maybe you seemed to be interesting to talk to wherever we happened to meet. Sure I will give you my number, so we can chill again "as friends." But just because you got my phone number doesnt mean you got me.

I went on a bus party to the city one time, and there were these freshmen on the bus. They werent talking to anyone, so I just introduced myself to them, asked them if they were excited and such; small talk, nothing big. One of the boy adds me on facebook in a couple of days, and then asks me if he was going to see me at another party that was coming up. I saw him at the other party, but he didnt even talk to me even when he saw me. So in my head I was like this kid is a facebook creep. Then the first week of summer session he invites me on facebook to a party, so we exchanged numbers and such so he can send me the details of the party. It worked out that I wasnt able to go the party because I got in trouble at home. I told him the whole deal and apologized..that was that. Next week he texts me "Im so tipsy right now, stop getting in trouble, I wish you were here right now <3"

First of all is the "<3" really necessary? I find it really awkward when guys make hearts in texts. Second of all, just by introducing myself to you, mainly because you looked like lost freshmen on the bus, does it imply that I want to get with you?